13 Tips for Military Families New to Korea
Receiving orders to one of the US military bases in South Korea can be both exciting and overwhelming. South Korea is a country rich in history, culture, and modern conveniences, but adjusting to a new environment always comes with new challenges. As a military family, understanding the dynamics of your new home will help you settle in more comfortably. The US military maintains several bases across South Korea, each located in unique cities that offer diverse experiences.
The primary US military bases in South Korea include Camp Humphreys in Pyeongtaek, the largest US overseas military base; Osan Air Base in Osan, known for its strategic location; Yongsan Garrison in Seoul, situated in the heart of the bustling capital; Camp Casey and Camp Hovey in Dongducheon, near the DMZ; and Kunsan Air Base in Gunsan, located on the west coast. Each of these bases serves a crucial role in the US military presence in South Korea and provides various amenities and support services for military families.
Moving to a new country can be an exciting yet challenging experience, especially for military families. South Korea, with its rich culture, bustling cities, and beautiful landscapes, offers a unique experience for newcomers. Whether you're stationed in Seoul, Daegu, Pyeongtaek, or any other city, adjusting to life in Korea will be smoother with some preparation. Here are 13 tips for military families new to Korea, ensuring you make the most of your time in this fascinating country.
1. Understanding Korean Culture and Etiquette
One of the first steps in adjusting to life in Korea is understanding and respecting the local culture and etiquette. Korean society places a strong emphasis on respect and hierarchy, influenced by Confucian principles. By familiarizing yourself with these cultural norms, you will not only show respect to your Korean hosts but also find it easier to integrate into your new community.
Greetings
Bowing is a common way to greet and show respect in Korea. A deeper bow indicates more respect, and it’s especially important when meeting someone older or in a position of authority. While shaking hands is becoming more common, especially in business settings, a slight bow often accompanies it. When shaking hands, it's polite to support your right forearm with your left hand to show additional respect. For women, a nod of the head or a slight bow is generally acceptable. As you are a foreigner, however, don’t overdue it and embarrass yourself. A slight bow and handshake will be the most appropriate when greeting friends or colleagues.
Dining Etiquette
Dining etiquette is an important aspect of Korean culture. Here are some key points to remember:
- Wait for the Oldest Person: It’s customary to wait for the oldest person at the table to start eating before you begin. This shows respect for their seniority.
- Chopstick Use: Avoid pointing with your chopsticks and never stick them upright in your rice bowl, as this resembles a ritual for the dead. When not using your chopsticks, place them neatly on the chopstick rest. If you aren’t adept with chopsticks, and Korean chopsticks are known to be particularly heavy, you can always ask for a fork, they will definitely have one, even if they aren’t out. Also, Koreans prefer using a spoon to eat rice, so you don’t have to look clumsy trying with chopsticks when there is a better tool for the job.
- Sharing Drinks: When sharing drinks, pour drinks for others before yourself. It’s polite to use both hands when receiving or giving items, especially to someone older. When pouring drinks, hold the bottle with both hands, and when receiving a drink, hold your glass with both hands. If you follow this custom, especially with local libations, you will earn brownie points with your Korean friends and find them happy to drink with you.
- Eating Noisily: Unlike in some cultures, eating noisily (like slurping noodles) is not considered rude and can actually be seen as a compliment to the cook..
Public Behavior
Public behavior is another area where cultural awareness is crucial. Koreans value harmony and avoiding conflict, so it’s important to be mindful of your actions in public:
- Keep Your Voice Down: In public places like subways, buses, and restaurants, it’s considered polite to keep your voice down. Loud conversations can be seen as disruptive.
- Personal Space: Be mindful of personal space. While Korea is densely populated and crowded spaces are common, unnecessary physical contact like hugging or patting on the back with acquaintances is usually avoided.
- Queueing: When waiting in line, whether it’s for public transportation or at a store, always queue in an orderly manner. Pushing ahead or cutting in line is frowned upon.
Other Cultural Nuances
- Respect for Elders: Always show respect to elders. This includes standing up when an elder enters the room, giving up your seat on public transportation, and using polite language.
- Gift Giving: If you’re invited to someone’s home, it’s customary to bring a small gift such as fruit, sweets, or a token from your home country. When giving and receiving gifts, use both hands.
- Business Cards: When exchanging business cards, offer and receive the card with both hands, and take a moment to look at the card before putting it away. This shows respect and attentiveness.
- Korean/English Names: Many Koreans who have studied English often adopt an English name to make others feel comfortable. However, if you want to build a genuine friendship, ask for their Korean name and use it.
For more detailed cultural tips, the Korean government provides comprehensive guides that can be extremely helpful:
2. Learning Basic Korean Phrases
While many Koreans, especially in urban areas, speak English, learning basic Korean phrases will significantly enhance your experience and makes everyone feel better. Simple greetings and polite phrases can go a long way in daily interactions. Here are so basics that you’ll need to master:
- Hello: 안녕하세요 (An-nyeong ha-se-yo)
- Thank you: 감사합니다 (Gam-sa-ham-ni-da)
- Excuse me: 실례합니다 (Sil-lye-ham-ni-da)
- Yes/No: 네 (Ne) / 아니요 (Ah-ni-yo)
- Where is...?: 어디에요...? (Odi eyo...?)
- How much is this?: 이거 얼마에요? (Igeo al-ma-eyo?)
- Do you speak English?: 영어 할 수 있어요? (Yeong-o hal su i-sseoy-yo?)
Consider enrolling in a Korean language class or using language apps.
Duolingo
Pimsleur
Drops
The Korean government also offers language programs for foreigners:
3. Navigating Transportation in Korea
Korea has an incredibly efficient and extensive public transportation system, including subways, buses, and trains. Don’t worry, cleanliness and safety is not a concern and millions of people use public transit each day. If you don’t plan on purchasing a vehicle, understanding how to navigate this system will make your life much easier:
- T-Money Card: This rechargeable card can be used on buses, subways, and even in taxis. You can purchase and top up T-Money cards at convenience stores and subway stations. It also offers discounts on fares compared to single-use tickets.
- KTX Trains: For long-distance travel, Korea's high-speed train network (KTX) is fast and comfortable. Book tickets in advance during peak travel seasons.
- Apps: Apps like KakaoMap and Naver Map are essential for navigating and offer English language options. Kakao T for taxis and KakaoBus for bus schedules are also highly recommended.
For detailed guides on transportation, visit:
4. Finding Housing and Understanding Local Real Estate
Securing suitable housing is crucial for your comfort and stability in Korea. Your sponsor will probably be your best resource, but here are some additional tips:
- Housing Options: Explore different types of housing such as apartments (아파트), villas (빌라), and officetels (오피스텔). Each type offers different amenities and living experiences. Apartments are usually part of larger complexes with shared facilities, while villas are smaller and often provide more space.
- Real Estate Agents: Using a real estate agent (부동산) can simplify the process. They can help with lease agreements and finding homes that meet your needs. Make sure to check if they have experience dealing with foreigners and can communicate in English.
- Understanding Leases: Familiarize yourself with Korea's unique deposit system called "Jeonse" (전세) and monthly rent ("Wolse" 월세). Jeonse involves a large lump-sum deposit that you get back at the end of the lease, while Wolse is more like traditional rent with a smaller deposit and monthly payments.
For more information, the Korean government provides resources and advice:
5. Healthcare and Medical Services
Korea offers high-quality healthcare services, and understanding how to access them is essential:
- Health Insurance: Ensure you are enrolled in the National Health Insurance (NHI) system, which provides comprehensive coverage. Check with your base for any additional health coverage specific to military families.
- Hospitals and Clinics: Many hospitals in major cities have English-speaking staff and offer international clinics for foreigners. Popular hospitals with international clinics include Samsung Medical Center and Severance Hospital in Seoul.
- Pharmacies: Easily accessible and often open late. Common medications are readily available, but it’s wise to bring a supply of any specific prescriptions you need. Pharmacists can provide over-the-counter medications for common ailments, but a doctor's prescription is required for more potent drugs.
For detailed information on healthcare services, visit:
- National Health Insurance Service (NHIS)
- Korea Health Industry Development Institute
6. Enrolling Your Children in School
Education is a top priority for military families, and Korea offers excellent schooling options:
- International Schools: There are several international schools catering to various curricula, including American, British, and IB programs. Examples include Seoul Foreign School, Dwight School Seoul, and Yongsan International School of Seoul.
- Korean Schools: For a more immersive experience, some families choose local Korean schools. This can be a great way for children to learn the language and culture, though it might come with initial language barriers.
- Support Services: Many bases offer support and resources for enrolling children in schools. Reach out to your base's family support office for guidance and assistance.
For more detailed information on education options, check out:
- Seoul Metropolitan Office of Education
- International Schools in Korea
7. Exploring Local Cuisine
Korean cuisine is delicious and diverse. Trying local dishes and exploring food markets can be a delightful experience:
- Traditional Dishes: Try staples like Kimchi (김치), Bibimbap (비빔밥), and Korean BBQ (고기구이). Don’t miss out on regional specialties like Jeonju Bibimbap and Busan’s seafood.
- Street Food: Enjoy street food delights like Tteokbokki (떡볶이), Hotteok (호떡), and Gimbap (김밥). Visit popular street food markets such as Gwangjang Market in Seoul and Seomun Market in Daegu.
- Dining Out: Korea has a vibrant dining scene with everything from local eateries to fine dining restaurants. Explore traditional hanok (한옥) restaurants for a unique dining experience.
For more information on Korean cuisine, visit:
- Visit Korea - Food & Drink
- Korean Food Foundation
8. Utilizing the Shuttle App for Convenient Services
One of the most useful apps for newcomers is the Shuttle app. It is optimized for American credit cards and English speakers, making it incredibly convenient for ordering food and other services. Download it here: Shuttle App.
- Food Delivery: Enjoy a wide variety of cuisines delivered to your doorstep. Whether you're craving Korean BBQ, pizza, or sushi, the Shuttle app has you covered.
- Ease of Use: The app is designed with English-speaking users in mind, ensuring a hassle-free experience. The interface is user-friendly, and customer service is available in English.
- Payment: Supports American credit cards, simplifying transactions. You can also use Korean payment methods if you prefer.
For more details, explore the Shuttle app and its services.
9. Engaging with the Expat Community
Connecting with other expats can provide valuable support and friendship:
- Online Communities: Join Facebook groups and online forums for military families and expats in Korea. Groups like "Expats in Korea" and "U.S. Military in Korea" can be helpful for finding information and support.
- Local Events: Participate in events and activities organized by expat groups and local communities. Many cities have expat clubs that organize social gatherings, cultural tours, and networking events.
- Base Resources: Utilize resources and programs offered by your base to connect with other families. Family support offices often host events and provide services to help you settle in.
For more information on expat communities and resources, visit:
- Seoul Global Center
- Meetup - Expats in Korea
10. Exploring Korea's Attractions and Activities
Korea offers a wealth of attractions and activities for families:
- Historical Sites: Visit palaces like Gyeongbokgung (경복궁) and cultural heritage sites. The city of Gyeongju, known as "the museum without walls," is home to numerous historical treasures.
- Nature and Outdoor Activities: Explore national parks, hiking trails, and beaches. Popular destinations include Seoraksan National Park, Jeju Island, and the DMZ (Demilitarized Zone) for a unique historical perspective.
- Festivals and Events: Participate in traditional festivals, modern events, and local celebrations. Major events include the Seoul Lantern Festival, Boryeong Mud Festival, and the Busan International Film Festival.
For more ideas on things to do and places to visit, check out:
- Visit Korea
- Korea National Park Service
11. Understanding Banking and Financial Services
Managing your finances efficiently is crucial for a smooth stay in Korea:
- Bank Accounts: Opening a bank account in Korea is straightforward but requires documentation such as your Alien Registration Card (ARC) and passport. Major banks with English services include KEB Hana Bank, Woori Bank, and Shinhan Bank.
- Currency Exchange: Currency exchange services are widely available at banks and airports. It’s often beneficial to use ATMs for better exchange rates.
- Online Banking: Most banks offer online banking services in English, which can be very convenient for managing your finances.
For more information on banking services, visit:
12. Internet and Mobile Phone Services
Staying connected is essential, and Korea fortunately offers some of the fastest internet services in the world!
- Mobile Phones: You can either bring your unlocked phone and get a local SIM card or purchase a phone in Korea. Major providers include SK Telecom, KT, and LG U+, most of which offer English-language services.
- Internet Services: High-speed internet is readily available, and many service providers offer affordable packages. Consider bundled services that include mobile, internet, and TV for better deals. Internet installation canbe arranged by calling the English language customer support service, and typically within days an appointment is scheduled.
- Wi-Fi: Public Wi-Fi is abundant, especially in urban areas like Seoul or Busan. You can also rent portable Wi-Fi devices for convenient internet access on the go.
For more information on telecommunications services, visit:
13. Weather and Seasonal Tips
Did you know Korea has four seasons? It does, and you’ll be hearing all about it from your Korean friends. Korea experiences four distinct seasons, each with its own charms and challenges.
- Spring: Mild temperatures and beautiful cherry blossoms make this a great time for outdoor activities. However, be aware of yellow dust from China, which can affect air quality.
- Summer: Hot and humid with frequent rain showers. Starting in late June, you can expect about one month of rain. Pack rain gear, lightweight, or quick-dry clothing and stay hydrated when out and about.
- Autumn: Pleasant weather and stunning fall foliage. This is a great time for enjoying Korea’s superabundant hiking trails and outdoor festivals.
- Winter: Cold and dry with occasional snowfall. Ensure you have warm clothing, and consider purchasing heating pads and electric blankets for extra comfort.
For more detailed weather information and forecasts, visit:
Adjusting to life in Korea as a military family can be a smooth and enjoyable process with the right information and resources. Embrace the experience, immerse yourself in the culture, and make the most of your time in this vibrant and dynamic country. By following these tips and utilizing available resources, you’ll be well-prepared to navigate and enjoy your new surroundings.
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